Friday, March 25, 2005
Recovery Part II
There are very few medical absolutes. When I hear "always" or "never" in a medical context, I can't help remembering that in 1970 I was the smallest preemie to survive in the hospital where I was born-- I was "never" going to talk and would "always" have to be cared for by my parents. Today I am a mother, speaker and writer, I drive my own van and work full time. I've been told that I "never" shut up!
Doctors are smart, hardworking people who mean well. But they can't see the future.
One way to see the value of life...
I've been trying to say that for weeks now. Lovely, Doctor.
No cases of recovery from PVS?
Rae has posted a whole list of stories about people who were diagnosed PVS, and recovered to one degree or another-- at which time the doctors said, "Oops, sorry!" ((NOTE: scroll down to the posts beginning March 23.))
Terri Can Teach us to Choose Joy
I've noticed lately that it seems easy for people to watch the video and say "Maybe Michael Schiavo shouldn't be able to make this decision, but I wouldn't want to live like that." The truth is, they don't know what it's like. They're making assumptions about how they'd feel if they lost the ability to walk, talk, or be independent. Of course it's scary to contemplate a big change in someone's health or abilities. But I hope those of us who fight for Terri will make a difference in the way that change is seen by the world. That's what inspired me to write "18 Ways to Live--" There is no real need for Terri's life to be bleak-- She is loved; that's the big thing. If she is allowed to be comfortable, to experience the world, and to work toward rehabillitation, that can be a rich, fulfilling life, despite limitations. Truthfully, all of us have limitations, and any of us can choose to find joy despite loss.
Wednesday, March 23, 2005
Why the courts and the government don't need to help Terri now
Sadly, the extreme measures made in the House, and the rhetoric that follows, probably mean there will be no more intervention from them because of these embarrassing facts:
a) The voting public has seen the boneheaded memo that may have been sent out to Republican congressmen before the debate on the House floor.
b) President Bush, while still Governor of Texas, signed legislation that allows doctors to refuse to execute an advance directive in some cases. Texas Children's Hospital recently used this law to remove a ventillator from an infant against his mother's wishes.
d) The public, by and large, doesn't seem to find a lot of value in a life like Terri's. Once she's gone, this issue seems likely to become weighted on the side of ending treatment for others like her.
c) The next election is too far away for Terri's death to matter at the polls.
Despite the Schindler's vow to seek relief from the Supreme court, it looks to me like this is the place where the buck stops. I am not a lawyer, or a politician. I fervently pray that I am wrong.